David Niven The Man Behind the Balloon by Michael Munn

Published in 2009, this appears to be the last of the biographies about the “grin and tonic” man so loved by many. Sheridan Morley was commissioned intially by Niven’s two sons after his death to write about their father. As he had grown up knowing the two men and had  met David on several occasions throughout his life, Morley was a good choice to be Niven’s first “serious” biographer.

Morley’s effort was titled The Other Side of the Moon and brought up a lot of issues that Niven had left out of his two “biographies” which, as his sons said, were really about other people. A collection of his cocktail anecdotes that had amused his fans and friends for years; David was, if nothing else, a brilliant raconteur both on talk shows and at parties.

Graham Lord then gave us his two pence worth with very little new information but a slightly different point of view in his book Niv. Both men gave more information than was generally known about the actor whose life has been referred to as “Wodehouse with tears.”

Michael Munn says in his introduction to the book that Niv himself came to him in 1982 to “get the facts” straight so that he was not vilified or slandered after his death like his old drinking mate Errol Flynn. At that time David knew he was dying from Motor Neurone Disease; a horrible wasting illness that slowly and horribly kills the afflicted sufferer. Although it was difficult for Niv to communicate with Munn (one of the side affects of the disease is losing the ability to speak clearly) he set Michael in the right direction.

Why Munn? Because he had been a friend and confidant of Niven since 1970; back then Munn was an entertainment reporter just starting in the business. His boss set up a meeting with Niven who was in London promoting his latest film. The two men clicked and a long running friendship was formed.

Munn works pretty well as David Niven‘s last life chronicler. He manages to show the Niven skeletons and shies away from stories already in print by other authors. He even manages to be sympathetic toward David’s second wife Hjordis. Of course he also praised Sheridan Morley’s book (which was really very, very good) and that speaks volumes to me as a reader and a fan of Morley’s writing.

Most people know David Niven as the author of The Moon’s a Balloon and Bring on the Empty Horses. He sold millions of these books that were in reality his “cocktail party stories” and mainly about other people in his life. He told very little of his own life and skated over things he felt that no-one should know or would be interested in.

Niven won an Academy Award for his portrayal of the fake war hero Major who has a fondness for fondling young ladies in the film Separate Tables. He was the second star of Around the World in 80 days (the first being the actual film according to him) and either one of the most unappreciated character actors in the business or the most overused. It was said that a lot of producers wanted him in their horrible films because he could add class to the drivel they were selling.

He was a favourite on the talk show circuit. He seemed to have a never-ending reservoir of funny tales to tell. Often they had originated as someone else’s story, but Niv had a good “ear” for stories and he often “borrowed” them and polished them up for further audiences delight. The people he borrowed the stories from never minded as Niv could tell stories like no one else.

While quite a lot of the anecdotes he related in both his books have been refuted or at least had their veracity questioned, Niven was the first Hollywood star to write a book himself  that ran so long in the number one best-seller spot. He was a remarkable man and a much better actor than he was ever given credit for. He continued to work until it became physically impossible for him to do so.

Unfortunately a lot of his films were dross. Made for the money or made because of the great “chums” he would be working with. Ironically the last really great performance he gave was in a film Paper Tiger where he played a variation on his Oscar-winning Major in Separate Tables. A phony war hero who makes good by the end of the picture; it is a brilliant bit of work and stupidly difficult to find. The irony was that he hated making the film and was not his usual cheerful self during filming.

A scene from Separate Tables. Niven with one of his best chums, Deborah Kerr.

David Niven was a man who wanted to entertain people, whether it involved acting or just being an eternally cheerful chap who told the most glorious and funny stories; he wanted to be liked. Most folks who came into contact with him did like him; especially women.

That he was a man addicted to sex is beyond question. He was incapable of remaining faithful to one woman. Even the love of his life, his first wife Primula (Primmie) was not able to stop his insatiable sexual appetite for the opposite sex. David himself felt no real guilt about these extra marital dalliances. In his mind, he loved Primmie (and later Hjordis) and that was what mattered. He really felt that the sex with other women he did not love (and this included prostitutes) was not of any consequence.

Munn himself never understood Niven’s viewpoint and it puzzled him. But one does, after all, have to remember that David’s first sexual experiences were with a prostitute, the infamous Nessie, who he fell madly in love with at the tender age of 14.

Niven’s life was unbelievably sad and tragic; it also seemed to be riddled with “bad luck.” He was just beginning to become a star when the Second World War broke out and he rushed home to sign up to a country who did not want him. He then went on to work in a specialized unit. This unit’s “secretive” role haunted him for the rest of his life.

I suppose that Munn’s book gives a fairly good insight as to what made Niven tick. Sadly, a lot of “truths” that are brought to light only make his life seem more tragic. Niven was a wonderful entertainer, a more than capable actor and a pretty damn good writer. It is sad that this revealing book is the last word on his character.

I would recommend reading Michael Munn’s revealing book, but only after reading Sheridan Morley’s and Graham Lord’s sympathetic and fond recounts of his life. Munn is not less sympathetic and perhaps even fonder, but as I have said, with Niven’s cooperation and blessing the cat was let well and truly out of the bag on the details of his life.

David Niven (b March 1, 1910 – d July 29, 1983)

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Author: Michael Knox-Smith

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13 thoughts on “David Niven The Man Behind the Balloon by Michael Munn”

  1. It does seem odd that a chap living in little Sudbury could and should meet all these famous, now dead, celebrities. Although in the UK the chances of bumping into a live celebrity is higher. I lived in Ipswich for years and before that near Newmarket and at my second wedding’s reception, my father-in-law leaned over and told me to rush “next door” as Trevor Howard (The Green Man, Father Goose) was there with his wife having a quiet meal. (I still have a photo taken by our wedding photographer of Mr Howard standing outside the pub door with his mate and his missus.) It was not unusual to see many English stars, performers and actors in such mundane places as Waterstones, Tescos, or even outside the local prison. London, where Ms Gardiner lived for many years, was a great place to spot the famous.

    Of course out of all the various celebs I either bumped into or passed by none offered to become my bosom buddy or to have an affair with me or to become an instant mate who wanted to reveal all. I highly suspect, at least in the case of David Niven who already had a couple of “revelatory” books written about his real life (Sheridan Morley and Graham Lord already did two brilliant books about Niven and they both were closer to the man than Munn “apparently” was.) Munn did a lot of research on available material and let his fertile imagination do the rest.

    Having said that, the British press, even at The Guardian (Michael Munn debunking article) do delight in knocking down anyone who dares to become visible. When a denizen of small Sudbury and a regular at the even tinier Boxford claims to know anyone famous (and makes a living writing about it) the long knives will come out. Shame that they’ve not followed up that 2010 interview…

  2. Nothing Michael Munn says or writes can be trusted. The man is a compulsive liar, writing himself Zelig-like into the lives of the famous.

  3. He was definitely on my list of “want to meet/work with” when I had illusions of working in the industry. A true legend who has not, thus far, been replaced. Thanks Garry! 😀

  4. David Niven was one of those authentic Hollywood legends, with real life heroics that matched his reel adventures. I read “The Moon’s a Balloon” and “Bring On The Empty Horses” and enjoyed both immensely. I just watched him in one of his first starring roles, “Bachelor Mother” (1939-RKO) opposite Ginger Rogers. He already had that “Niv” charm that would delight so many of us for decades. I think his Oscar for “Separate Tables” was richly deserved. He’s one of those fellows I definitely would have enjoyed meeting. The closest I came to a personal encounter was hearing stories shared by George Cukor and Angela Lansbury who smiled and laughed as they talked about Niven whom they wanted but couldn’t get for a film collaboration. I look forward to reading the newest book about a Gentleman most of us guys of a certain age will always admire.

  5. No worries mate, but if I could make a suggestion, I’d recommend reading Sheridan Morley’s book first or at least Graham Lord’s and then finish with Michael Munn’s. Just a suggestion but as Niv’s own sons said, those books (Balloon and Horses) are about other people. Morley is a good start… 😀

  6. i remember reading The Moon’s a Balloon and Bring on the Empty Horses long ago. Seems like a good one to get. Thanks for the heads up, Mike.

  7. I would have loved to have found out what she meant as I am sure you would have! I would recommend reading Morley’s book first as he does include a lot of the more factual tales that Niv told. His story was the first where I made the connection that a lot of people “pay” for their success. Cheers mate and thanks for the reblog!! 😀

  8. Reblogged this on Serendipity and commented:
    I always liked David Niven. He was a class act, not matter how crappy the material he had to work with. I read his books and will read these too. I always thought there was more to him than met the eye.

  9. I always liked David Niven. He was a class act, not matter how crappy the material he had to work with. I read his books and will read these too. HI always thought there was more to him than met the eye. We all know about making jokes to ward off tears. He and my mom were born very close together and died within a couple of months of each other.

    My mother always thought their fates were linked in some weird way. I never could get her to explain what she meant by that.

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